Archive for August 2009

Personal and work digital lives

Friday, August 21st, 2009

People underestimate the importance of having separate personal and work email accounts and calendars. It is great to have ones private and personal emails in separate mailboxes, so that if you want to get away from your work life and focus on your personal email you can. This extends to ones calendaring too - separate calendars for work appointments and personal events can be very useful.

This sort of separation is advantageous for lifestyle organisation too: it is good to know that certain times are reserved for work and others for play. It aids the balancing of ones work and personal lives, by enforcing a consciousness of the difference between work and non-work time. All of this is really very important in the lives of most people in the 21st century. It also provides a sense of lifestyle security.

Sarah Palin’s separation mess

In some peoples’ cases, it is politically important or important in terms of security to separate ones work and personal digital lives (ones emails, calendars, and such). Apparently Sarah Palin got in to trouble for allegedly breaching the Federal rule which creates the responsibility to separate ones work and personal email (or more appropriately, ‘public and private email’):

Sarah Palin’s [private] Yahoo email account was hacked by a group that calls themselves “Anonymous”. … Most of the emails seem to be messages of support, and photos of family. Nothing too exciting. But it’s been said that Palin and her associates all used private emails for government business.

The more important issue

The crux of this issue - which is far more interesting - is that technology often keep us constantly connected to everything and everyone in our lives, and it takes a conscious effort to mitigate this.

Communication omnipresence is a problem

We now have mobile telephones, home telephones, email accounts, instant messaging accounts, and social networking accounts - our communication technology is ever-expanding. Indeed, as for social networking sites, although I love Facebook, my only big dislike of it is that it doesn’t allow for the adequate separation of work and personal friendships, and this is a distinction which is important for most people.

By separating ones email and calendars, it is possible to prevent a natural omnipresence whereby you would be connected to your business and personal life constantly and your brain under constant pressure from being connected with both spheres of life concurrently. It would be near-impossible to live a balanced lifestyle.

Life Lessons

Tuesday, August 11th, 2009

I absolutely adore aphorisms, maxims, life lessons, or whatever you want to call them. I find them both spiritually and intellectually stimulating and even provoking. In a recent blog post, John Eaton, founder of Reverse Therapy, took 30 of Regina Brett’s 45 life lessons. I would like to share the best 34 of the original 45 with you, presented in an order that I think makes the most sense:

1. All that truly matters in the end is love.

2. Don’t compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.

3. Forgive everyone.

4. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.

5. Don’t take yourself seriously. No one else does.

6. Don’t audit your life. Make the most of it now.

7. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting to happen.

8. A writer writes. If you want to be a writer, write.

9. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don’t take no for an answer.

Life walk

10. Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and parents will. Stay in touch.

11. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.

12. Frame every so-called disaster with these words: “In five years, will this matter?”

13. It’s never too late to have a happy childhood.

14. Make peace with your past so it won’t screw up the present.

15. Life isn’t fair but it’s still good.

16. Over-prepare, then go with the flow.

17. Everything can change in the blink of an eye.

18. However good or bad your situation is, it will change.

19. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn’t be in it.

20. When someone breaks your heart quickly bestow your love on others.

21. Time heals almost everything.

22. When in doubt just take the next small step.

23. It’s okay to let your children see you cry.

24. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.

Life lessons

25. Don’t take for granted what you have got - or you may lose it.

26. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.

27. Get rid of anything that isn’t useful, beautiful or joyful.

28. Be eccentric now. Don’t wait for old age to wear purple.

29. You don’t have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

30. What other people think of you is none of your business.

31. Whatever does not kill you makes you stronger.

32. Life isn’t tied with a bow, but it’s still a gift.

33. It’s OK to get angry with God. He can take it.

34. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else’s, we’d grab ours back.